Be brave

Learning music doesn’t just doesn’t just make you a musician, it actually builds bravery.

Music and particularly performing music, lives in the same part of your brain where you recognize your own nakedness.

Every time someone performs, they are presenting to the audience – this is what I made, this is a piece of who I am.

That’s scary.

And bravery is doing something while you are afraid of doing it.

Every time that you do something that you are afraid of doing, every time you do something  bravely, it actually rewires your self concept, what you think about yourself.

Neural pathways get built that tell ourselves I can do difficult things and I can do it in front of people.

What is so amazing is that neural pathway that has been built doesn’t stay in music.

It shows up in job interviews, it shows up when you volunteer in the community, it shows up when you stand up to a bully.

There are so many places in life when we require bravery, the ability to do something while we are afraid to do it.

Bravery is built in the mind and the body through repeated acts of bravery.

And music is a bravery gym.

It’s not always what you think

I like to look on line for the latest musical trends, new singers or great live music.  I had a post pop up about a 14 year old girl, Sara James, who performed on America’s Got Talent, just a couple of weeks ago, for which she received a golden buzzer from Simon Cowell. Now, don’t get me wrong. Sara’s performance was excellent, she has a very bright future ahead of her, and it was a polished performance for someone so young.

However, we have to be careful not to be deceived that she just one day turned up out of the blue and did this amazing performance. While I was watching her perform there was a gut feeling in me that this girl has not just appeared out of nowhere. She was nervous, however I could tell that this was definitely a practiced performer.

Once I dived into the internet abyss, I soon discover that this is not the first competition she has performed in. Sara has grown up with music in her life, her father is a singer and she attends a music school. She has won the Polish (she is from Poland) “The Voice Kids” and last year came second in the Junior Eurovision Song Contest. She has also had a video clip produced and released on you tube only a couple of weeks ago. This girl has worked hard!

Do not be deceived by these competitions. For those who perform well, you can be guaranteed that there has been an enormous amount of work done to get them where they are.